His book entitled The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman concluded there are four signals indicate an unhealthy relationship, and likely to fail. More detailed information, such as falling following:
Often throwing criticism
Be careful in giving criticism on the couple. Therefore, criticism is always connotes as a medium to attack someone. So, when will catapult censure on the husband or wife, use words that sound more wise and positive. In addition, creating the feel of such a discussion, not an argument.
degrading
Eyeball movement that plays, mock, ridicule, and disparaging signs attitude is demeaning others. One reason for the destruction of households are couples who do not respect each other and respect each other.
defensive
When you and your partner in trouble, then you should immediately talk to each other to avoid accusing. Therefore, the defensive nature does not resolve the problem!
Silence
Give up or surrender is not an option that can resolve conflicts in the couple. Thus nature just makes you and the husband is and make the relationship more strained
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